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Frequently Asked Questions about Homeopathy PDF Print E-mail

 
Q. Since homeopathic remedies are so easily available from chemists, how safe is it for me to use them to treat the typical health concerns my family experience?

A. Most ‘Basic Guides’ to homeopathy identify the range of common complaints that can be treated on a first aid basis. A good starting point is the pamphlet of the same name distributed by Helios pharmacy for £2.95 plus p&p (01892 537254 or email pharmacy@helios.co.uk). It offers an up to date approach to prescribing and is ideal for minor accidents and ailments because nearly 80 are listed in alphabetical order (from Anxiety; via Chickenpox, Diarrhoea, Flu, Jet lag, Menstrual problems, Scalds; to Whiplash and Wounds). Then to help refine the selection process, there is also a ‘mini materia medica’ that describes a few key characteristics of the 36 most commonly required remedies.

 
An example would be:

Coughs

After exposure to dry, cold wind, Aconite 30c

Dry cough with chest pain and headache, Bryonia 30c

Dry at night, loose in the morning, Pulsatilla

See also ... Ant-tart, Drosera, Ipecac, Hepar-sulph, Kali-bich

 
After parents “get hooked” by small but often dramatic successes, accessible books by Colin Griffith, Beth MacEoin or Miranda Castro can help extend their experience with more detailed practical advice. By this stage it can prove more cost-effective to invest in a kit rather than buying remedies individually (50%+ savings) and this helps when emergencies occur in the middle of the night, away from home etc.

 
As for the issue of “safety” – since the remedies contain only minute doses of the active ingredient, unwanted side-effects are avoided. This makes them safe to use even alongside conventional medicines, as well as for the very young or very weak. Indeed many patients become well enough to reduce or come off prescribed medication (with medical supervision).

 
Q. Surely that makes Homeopaths redundant?

A. Not at all. Qualified homeopaths will have trained for 3 to 4 years, learning about anatomy, physiology and pathology alongside literally thousands of different homeopathic remedies that are needed in chronic health conditions. A referral would be appropriate when conditions recur regularly (e.g. frequent chest problems / sinusitis etc) or problems are longstanding and severe (anything from hay fever to eating disorders etc). This is why homeopathy can be so useful for adopted children who often have a raft of additional needs that are too debilitating to attempt to treat with a first aid approach.

 
Q. In such cases, wherever would you start, how long would treatment take and what could we expect?

A. My starting point is always with the issue that is causing most concern to the family / child, whether this is a physical complaint (chronic constipation, eczema, allergies etc) or emotional / behavioural (e.g. bedwetting, biting, tantrums, night terrors). Sometimes these resolve so quickly that parents can’t believe that “a few little white pills could make such a difference”. Often however, issues seem to be multi-layered: “hyperactivity” for instance can be caused by a number of factors and advice about diet and supplements, behavioural strategies to help with impulse control etc can help immensely; whilst a number of remedies are prescribed over a period of time to address underlying issues such as appallingly low self-esteem, trauma and attachment problems.

 
Even when all is going well, I suggest 3 or 6 monthly health MOT’s because changes in season often have a big impact on children’s development (as well as parental energy levels – think protracted summer holidays or the stresses of Christmas). This is why it is also a good idea to treat all the family, since changes in one member often have a knock-on effect with the others.

 
Q. How can homeopathy help where conventional approaches do not?

A. Every situation is different, but considerable independent research has shown that homeopathy can be as effective, if not better in a range of chronic conditions. Unlike strong anti-depressants or tranquillisers for instance, homeopathic medicines do not pose toxicity problems and are not addictive. The Government’s Medicines and Healthcare Regulatory Agency (MHRA) concluded in 2005 that of the 29 million anti-depressants prescribed that year to 2 million+ people, the risk of side effects outweighed the benefits (National Institute for Clinical Evidence guidance 2005). Although the same body advises against children under 18 being prescribed anti-depressants, 40,000 are thought to be taking psychiatric drugs for depression, anxiety and other problems (European Journal of Paediatrics peer review of a randomised, double blind placebo controlled, crossover trial confirming the effectiveness of homeopathic treatment for children with ADHD).

 Homeopathy is based on the principle that “like cures like” e.g. the remedy Coffea made from potentised coffee can be helpful in cases of the insomnia due to over-excitement that mimics a caffeine buzz. 200+ years of clinically based trials have identified the properties of thousands of homeopathic remedies, so we know the symptoms these cause in healthy people. Matching these substances as closely as possible to a patient’s unique symptoms, then “jump starts” their own healing process – hence the concept of “the minimum dose” ie often requiring only a very few doses to bring about improvement. For parents trying to find effective but non-invasive methods of supporting their children with often severe behavioural and learning problems, Ritalin Free Kids by Judyth Reichenberg-Ullman et al comes highly recommended.

Q. What is the process for making an appointment via the PACT scheme?

A. Bi-monthly sessions are held at the PACT offices, close to the centre of Reading. For further information please call PACT’s adoption & fostering administrator on 0118 938 7600 or e-mail info@pactcharity.org

 

 

 

 

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May's Article - Anxiety & Panic Attacks PDF Print E-mail

Anxiety and Panic Attacks

 
With older children facing the prospect of end of year exams, May is a good time to demonstrate how families can prescribe safely and effectively using a small number of frequently indicated remedies and other natural solutions, to counter the associated worries.

The following is a small selection of remedies that have been shown over time to have specific effects that justify their use in first aid type situations, providing commonsense is applied and medical advice sought when appropriate. Sometimes, especially with children, one prescription can provide relief; although as a general rule, the longer a condition has existed the more complex the homeopathic treatment programme, requiring repeated doses of the same or other remedies.

 

 


Remedy


Characteristics

Specifics

Aconite

“fight or flight” response.

Sudden onset – extreme restlessness and fear (may include an unfounded fear of death). Worse in crowds, confined spaces and for being touched

Often triggered by fright or shock, may result in retention of urine. “Flashbacks” to earlier bad experiences. Broken sleep (worse around midnight)  

Argentum-nitricum

Combination of anticipatory anxiety plus gastro-intestinal problems (bloating, flatulence)

Fear of flying

Fear of failure when performing in public, worse for over-rehearsing

Arsenicum

Physically exhausted and chilly but mentally restless / agitated. . Obsessed with order and tidiness – afraid to take risks. Torments everyone (themselves included) with often trivial complaints. Desperate for reassurance but also easily offended.

Fears à vomiting + diarrhoea; migraines; aggravate skin conditions. Must keep body warm but head cold. Many fears but especially preoccupied with own health. Worse if left alone and at night

Gelsemium

Visible trembling and sensation of heaviness – even the eyelids droop. Fear of losing control / falling. Better for sweating and urination

Timid patients who dread ordeals / new situations. Gradual onset e.g. build up to driving test or exams (a stronger version of the Bach Flower Rescue Remedy)

Lycopodium

Extreme lack of self-confidence and feelings of helplessness à reluctance to try new things, take on responsibilities but compensatory boasting / bullying

Flatulence + bloating; wakes hungry and must eat regularly

Outbursts of rage / destructiveness when feel unfairly treated, followed by quick repentance. Helpful for those who make mistakes when studying, reading, writing etc but normally perform well once started (e.g. dyslexia)

 

Experience with patients whose life had previously been disrupted by paralysing fears and phobias has however shown me that homeopathy can also be tremendously helpful, even when conventional approaches have provided little or no relief. This also confirms that holistic approaches can help us all transform personal crises into opportunities to broaden or adapt our coping strategies in general, without the risk of the debilitating side effects often associated with prescribed medication.

Understanding the context

Anxiety is an emotional state associated with feelings of apprehension and fearfulness about a specific, often unfamiliar, event. Symptoms reflect the “fight-flight” mechanism that can actually improve our response to this perceived threat by motivating us to prepare and focus our attention on the task; but can also include fidgeting, muscle tension, disrupted sleep, headaches and both physical and emotional hypersensitivity. In the more severe reactions known as panic attacks, we can experience rapid heartbeats and increased blood pressure, sweating, nausea and dizziness even to the point of fainting

 

In some senses homeopaths have an advantage in treating these cases, because rather than relying on a diagnosis, we concentrate on the focus of the anxiety and the patient’s unique reactions. We draw from over 3,000 remedies, using for reference resources known as Repertories that have been compiled over the last 200 years, detailing the outcome of research into the effects of each remedy – essentially “drug trials”. These contain impressively precise descriptions of fears, delusions, even the content of any nightmares that might be experienced:

 

Attacks of anxiety on going to bed…must breathe deeply, walk around, loosen clothes

 open windows …loss of control / hysteria, with faintness and aching / vomiting,

forehead covered with cold sweat … everything seems unreal / fears something

 terrible is going to happen / that he is dying

 

Although the aim of homeopathy is not only to remove symptoms but also ideally to cancel out the underlying susceptibility; my first choice for patients experiencing panic attacks is to use a combination of remedies that address the “fear of the fear” – the dread of “here we go again” based on previous experiences that compounds the current ordeal. This has worked whether the fears stem from phobias associated with flying, school attendance, leaving the house, contact with animals etc; anticipation of ordeals e.g. making presentations or are due to post traumatic shock. One child for instance was able to return to school after a year of becoming increasingly distraught, after just one dose. Such terror however is like a “default setting”, in that certain personality types will be generally more prone to react in this way. So it is important to follow this with remedies that counter e.g. a high need for control so that the patient becomes more relaxed in new situations,

 

For children who have been adopted, my sense is that the “normal” levels of anxiety can be heightened to produce fearful apprehension about loss of control and may involve violence to match what are perceived as threateningly dangerous events. In these cases it is even more important to try to understand what additional issues are being brought into play, especially if the “trigger” itself may be apparently trivial. It is here that the PACT service is particularly useful, since it allows for the family to be treated as a whole, which means that parents’ and sibling’ understandable anxieties can also be addressed. Referrals to professionals within the child’s health and educational networks are often helpful in providing behavioural and/or psychodynamic approaches that benefit the whole family. Other natural solutions to consider include relaxation and visualisation exercises, that encourage abdominal breathing to counter the tendency to hyperventilate when stressed; reducing stimulants (both dietary and social e.g. computer games); and using essential oils such as lavender to encourage refreshing sleep.

 

If you have any experiences relating to this article that you would like to discuss, you can email me on chris.hmatters@tiscali.co.uk. or make an appointment by contacting Sam Darley on 0118 9387600 or e-mail info@pactcharity.org

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