For many gay and LGBTQ+ people, adoption offers the possibility of creating a loving, secure family. Here at PACT, we understand how meaningful this opportunity is, which is why we’re committed to supporting LGBTQ+ families through the adoption process.
In this blog, we explain gay adoption rights if you’re LGBTQ+ and thinking about adopting a child.
Are gay people legally allowed to adopt in the UK?
Yes! Gay adoption has been legal across the UK for over 20 years.
The Adoption and Children Act 2002 removed restrictions based on sexual orientation and allowed same-sex couples to adopt jointly for the first time. This law established that adoption decisions must be made based on a person’s ability to meet a child’s needs, not on who they love.
Over the years, same-sex adoptive families have become a valued and visible part of the adoption community, in 2024, 29% of parents who adopted through PACT identified as LGBTQ+.
Do same-sex couples have the same adoption rights as heterosexual couples?
Once an adoption order is granted, same-sex adoptive parents have exactly the same adoption rights, parental rights and responsibilities as any other adoptive family. Under UK law, both parents are recognised as the child’s legal parents, with full and permanent parental responsibility. This includes married couples, civil partners and unmarried couples in long-term relationships.
There is no legal distinction between heterosexual and same-sex adopters during the adoption process, including during assessment, approval or placement. Adoption agencies and local authorities must apply the same criteria, standards and expectations to everyone.
Can single gay people legally adopt?
Single people have the right to adopt in the UK, and this includes single gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people. Sexual orientation and gender identity does not affect legal eligibility, and single LGBTQ+ adopters are protected under equality law in the same way as couples.
Many children in care are adopted by single parents, and LGBTQ+ individuals continue to play a vital role in offering safe, permanent homes.
Legal protection for same-sex couples against discrimination
One of the most important aspects of gay adoption rights in the UK is the protection from discrimination. Adoption agencies are bound by the Equality Act 2010, which makes it unlawful to treat someone unfairly because of their sexual orientation or gender identity.
This means:
- You cannot be refused the right to apply because you are gay or LGBTQ+
- You cannot be held to higher standards than heterosexual applicants
- Your relationship must be respected as equal and valid
- Decisions must be based on evidence, not personal beliefs
If an adopter ever feels they have been treated unfairly, there are clear routes for raising concerns and seeking independent advice.
Same-sex couples and adoption support with PACT
We strongly believe children thrive in homes where they are loved, supported and understood, regardless of the gender or sexuality of their adoptive parents. That’s why, all PACT adopters have access to PACT’s adoption support and training, as well as access to our online Children And Trauma Community Hub and PACT’s specialist therapeutic service FACTS.
If you’re considering same sex adoption, make an enquiry to our friendly and supportive team today.
